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		<title>Leaves in the wind</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2009/03/21/leaves-in-the-wind/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 18:15:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Soooo relaxing&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Soooo relaxing&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Waiting&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2009/01/30/waiting/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 12:21:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Know how time seems to come to a halt when you&#8217;re looking forward to something? Like when you were a kid, how the hours seemed to creep by when you were waiting to open all those lovely christmas- or birthday-presents? It&#8217;s now about 2,5 months until our baby is supposed to be born, and though [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Know how time seems to come to a halt when you&#8217;re looking forward to something? Like when you were a kid, how the hours seemed to creep by when you were waiting to open all those lovely christmas- or birthday-presents? It&#8217;s now about 2,5 months until our baby is supposed to be born, and though I sometimes feel like it hasn&#8217;t been too long since we found out Marianne was pregnant, I now find myself thinking that 2,5 months is an eternity!</p>
<p>In preparation for the baby&#8217;s arrival, we&#8217;ve purchased a few of the necessary items, such as a stroller, dresser, baby-bathtub, some cute clothes etc. We&#8217;ve also read a lot of books and internet articles about parenting and baby-related subjects, and generally feel well prepared &#8211; or at least as well prepared as any first-time parents can be.</p>
<p>Once we&#8217;ve brought the little one home, and she/he is in bed sleeping or in the stroller screaming, I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;ll be wondering what we&#8217;ve gotten ourselves into. Of course there will be moments of fear, doubt, and perhaps even desperation. The bottom line is that you can never prepare yourself for all eventualities.</p>
<p>As long as you&#8217;re prepared to do anything in your power for the baby to have a happy childhood, you&#8217;re gonna be fine. At least that&#8217;s how I see things. Just do your best, don&#8217;t over-protect the baby from all the dangers of the world, let them experience all aspects of life for themselves, and support and love them no matter what.</p>
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		<title>Christmas is over&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2008/12/31/christmas-is-over/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 16:32:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230;and a new year is about to begin. We spent christmas this year at my mom&#8217;s, and really enjoyed it. There was an abundance of presents for everyone, the highlight in my pile being a Playstation 3 from Marianne! I&#8217;ve already bought two games &#8211; Prince of Persia and Assassin&#8217;s Creed (awesome game!) &#8211; and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;and a new year is about to begin.</p>
<p>We spent christmas this year at my mom&#8217;s, and really enjoyed it. There was an abundance of presents for everyone, the highlight in my pile being a <a href="http://www.us.playstation.com/">Playstation 3</a> from Marianne! I&#8217;ve already bought two games &#8211; <a href="http://www.gamespot.com/ps3/action/princeofpersiaworkingtitle/index.html">Prince of Persia</a> and <a href="http://www.gamespot.com/ps3/action/assassinscreed/index.html">Assassin&#8217;s Creed</a> (awesome game!) &#8211; and some Blu-ray movies I&#8217;m looking foward to watch. There was a message attached to the PS3, roughly translated to &#8220;Here&#8217;s something to play with until life becomes more serious in April <img src='http://www.eiriks.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8221;. I like the message, though I&#8217;ve already started planning how to get our baby hooked on videogames and movies too&#8230;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t really believe in new year&#8217;s resolutions, so I&#8217;m not gonna announce any, but I&#8217;m gonna try and make next year the most exciting and productive year of my life. With a <a href="http://www.eiriks.net/2008/09/29/were-having-a-baby/">baby on the way</a> and with everything going on at <a href="http://bitbucket.org/">bitbucket</a>, I feel confident I&#8217;ll be able to accomplish that goal.</p>
<p>Looking back at 2008, I see a year of mixed emotions. I haven&#8217;t always been my old self, and have had times where I&#8217;ve been pretty miserable, and then there have been times of total bliss. All in all, I guess I can&#8217;t complain, and there&#8217;s no point in doing anything but try and remember the good times and be sure to make the most of all opportunities in the days ahead.</p>
<p>A happy new year to everyone, may it be a wonderful year for all of us!</p>
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		<title>First visit to midwife</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2008/10/29/first-visit-to-midwife/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 22:11:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today was our first visit to the midwife who we&#8217;ll be visiting regularly during the pregnancy. All is well with mother and child, and today we got to hear tiny little heartbeats for the first time. A wonderful and almost surreal experience. In two weeks we&#8217;re having the ultrasound scan/sonogram, which will probably make everything [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today was our first visit to the midwife who we&#8217;ll be visiting regularly during the pregnancy. All is well with mother and child, and today we got to hear tiny little heartbeats for the first time. A wonderful and almost surreal experience.</p>
<p>In two weeks we&#8217;re having the ultrasound scan/sonogram, which will probably make everything even more real than it is now, and hopefully we&#8217;ll see a baby with ten fingers and toes and perhaps be able to tell if it&#8217;s a boy or a girl. Exciting times!</p>
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		<title>Self-reflection</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2008/07/28/self-reflection/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 14:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I read a lot of articles and blog posts on the web. Most of them I just skim through and forget, but every now and then I come across posts that make me sit back and reflect over my own life and the way I live it. I have spent a lot of time in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read a lot of articles and blog posts on the web. Most of them I just skim through and forget, but every now and then I come across posts that make me sit back and reflect over my own life and the way I live it.</p>
<p>I have spent a lot of time in the past few years thinking about how I&#8217;m spending my allotted time on this planet. Am I living my life for myself, or for someone &#8211; or everyone &#8211; else?</p>
<p>I have reached a few conclusions about how I want to live my life, but never really shared them with anyone but Marianne. Earlier today, a good friend shared some thoughts with me that really hit home, and just like him, I believe that <a href="http://noehr.org/b/2008/07/its-about-how-you-make-people-feel/">It&#8217;s about how you make people feel</a> &#8211; just don&#8217;t forget &#8220;you&#8221; in the process.</p>
<p>Hereby nominated for a Webby Award in the category &#8220;Best self-reflecting article&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Semi-long hair</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2008/01/07/semi-long-hair/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 21:05:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is one step towards a &#8220;real&#8221; long-haired photo. It&#8217;s taken back in 1995, at Roskilde festival, with semi-long hair: BTW: notice the awesome sweater!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is one step towards a &#8220;real&#8221; long-haired photo. It&#8217;s taken back in 1995, at Roskilde festival, with semi-long hair:<br />
<img src="http://www.eiriks.net/img/roskilde95.jpg" alt="Me with semi-long hair at Roskilde 1995" /><br />
BTW: notice the <strong>awesome</strong> sweater!</p>
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		<title>How time flies&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2007/08/09/how-time-flies/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2007 07:46:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s amazing how time flies when you&#8217;re busy. This summer has been a hectic one, with lots of stuff happening. Both me and Marianne have been busy at work, and pretty much all weekends since early May have been booked; Birthday parties, school reunions, wedding party etc1. It&#8217;s been fun, but also quite exhausting. That&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s amazing how time flies when you&#8217;re busy. This summer has been a hectic one, with lots of stuff happening. Both me and Marianne have been busy at work, and pretty much all weekends since early May have been booked; Birthday parties, school reunions, wedding party etc<sup>1</sup>. It&#8217;s been fun, but also quite exhausting. That&#8217;s why we&#8217;re really looking forward to our summer holiday, beginning next friday!</p>
<p>We&#8217;re going to spend the first week up north, going to our family cabin inÂ <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Senja">Senja</a>, visiting family inÂ <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bardu">Bardu</a>, and then going to Marianne&#8217;s mum who will be dogsitting while we&#8217;re going to Mallorca for two weeks. Whohoo!</p>
<p><sup>1</sup>Â seen a few of movies, only two worth mentioning:<br />
-Â <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0373889/">Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix</a>: brilliant movie, great adaptation of the book, lots of magic and well-made special effects. I think Chris Columbus did the best job in capturing the magical atmosphere from the books, so I find the first two movies to be the best, but this one still gets a 9/10.</p>
<p>- I also went to seeÂ <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0418279/">Transformers</a>, which was a mediocre movie IMHO. Special effects 10/10, but the story, dialog, acting etc: 2/10.</p>
<p>Oh, almost forgot (how could I), I finishedÂ <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harry_Potter_and_the_Deathly_Hallows">Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows</a>Â in just a couple of days, I couldn&#8217;t put the book down. Quite sad that this seven year journey has now ended, but at least we have two more movies to look forward to. The book left a bit too many loose ends, so it was great to read JK Rowling&#8217;s online interview where she gave a bit more information about the lives of the main characters after then end of the last book. Fantastic book that will stand as the culmination of a unique and magical coming-of-age story that will undoubtedly live on for years and years.</p>
<p>I know that the summer is coming to an end here in the northern parts of the northern hemisphere, but since this is the beginning of my summer vacation I would like to wish everyone a happy summer!</p>
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		<title>Blogging</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2007/04/30/blogging/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2007 13:17:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been going for first price in the &#8220;blog most rarely updated&#8221;-competition, but I&#8217;ve given up and will hopefully write more often from now on, about (more or) less interesting stuff. Yesterday we went bowling, and I&#8217;m proud to announce that my new personal best is 163. To be honest I have absolutely no idea [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been going for first price in the &#8220;blog most rarely updated&#8221;-competition, but I&#8217;ve given up and will hopefully write more often from now on, about (more or) less interesting stuff.</p>
<p>Yesterday we went bowling, and I&#8217;m proud to announce that my new personal best is 163. To be honest I have absolutely no idea how I got 163, but I&#8217;m guessing that luck was the biggest factor in the equation.</p>
<p>In other news (the short version):<br />
- The movie &#8220;300&#8243; was crap.<br />
- The movie &#8220;Pan&#8217;s Labyrinth&#8221; was definitely not crap, though not as good as I hoped it would be.<br />
- Went to Levi, Finland, on a ski-trip with work. Skiing is fun!<br />
- Summer holiday is booked, Mallorca here we come! Been there once before, really looking forward to going back to see more of the island.<br />
- I&#8217;m really happy with life, apart from being fed up with work.. More on that in a different post, about dealing with stuff you can&#8217;t do anything about.</p>
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		<title>Happy New Year!</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2006/12/31/happy-new-year-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 2007 00:15:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How time flies! It&#8217;s been 9 months since I left Opera to move home to TromsÃ¸, and it&#8217;s been a very busy time for both me and Marianne. New car, bought an apartment, got a dog&#8230; Let&#8217;s just say that it&#8217;s been quite stressful, and I&#8217;m looking forward to getting more structure in the new [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How time flies! It&#8217;s been 9 months since I left Opera to move home to TromsÃ¸, and it&#8217;s been a very busy time for both me and Marianne. New car, bought an apartment, got a dog&#8230; Let&#8217;s just say that it&#8217;s been quite stressful, and I&#8217;m looking forward to getting more structure in the new year, hopefully being able to lower the stress level slightly. My main plan to accomplish this, is to get a MacBook Pro and start working more from home. Anyone who works with development of any type of software knows that motivation and creativity isn&#8217;t always present between 0800 and 1600, so it&#8217;s going to be perfect for me to be able to work more independently.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t believe in New Year&#8217;s resolutions, so I don&#8217;t have any, but I have had the following goals since I moved back north:<br />
1. Start working out again.<br />
2. Work less hours, and work more efficiently instead.<br />
3. Have more fun.</p>
<p>The last item on that list is something that I&#8217;ve recently given more and more thought. After all, we only get one chance at this thing they call life, so why bother spending it being stressed and feeling bad all the time.</p>
<p>A Happy New Year to friends, aquaintances, and strangers &#8211; may 2007 be a great year for us all.</p>
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		<title>Grown-up points</title>
		<link>http://www.eiriks.net/2006/11/12/grown-up-points/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Nov 2006 12:08:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Eirik</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few years ago, a friend introduced me to the concept of &#8220;grown-up points&#8221;. The idea is that whenever you do something &#8220;grown-up&#8221; for the first time, or handle a situation or event in a &#8220;grown-up&#8221; way, you get a certain amount of points. Going to your first job interview, getting interested in someone for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few years ago, a friend introduced me to the concept of &#8220;grown-up points&#8221;. The idea is that whenever you do something &#8220;grown-up&#8221; for the first time, or handle a situation or event in a &#8220;grown-up&#8221; way, you get a certain amount of points. Going to your first job interview, getting interested in someone for something other than their looks, buying your first car, paying your first bill, these are just some examples of what would give points &#8211; it&#8217;s not an exact science.</p>
<p>The whole point of this post is that me and Marianne just scored bigtime &#8211; we&#8217;ve bought our first apartment! We&#8217;ve been looking for an apartment to buy ever since we moved to TromsÃ¸ in April, but haven&#8217;t found something that we both liked and could afford &#8211; until now. It&#8217;s a 58 m<sup>2</sup>Â apartment situated close to the city, the airport, shopping centers, SATS (training center), and also has some nice outdoor areas where we can walk Max.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s all very exciting, and we can&#8217;t wait to move in and make it our home!</p>
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